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šŸ’„šŸ’¢ Sexist jokes are microaggressions, and they are part of a bigger patriarchal problem



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šŸ’„šŸ’¢ Sexist jokes are microaggressions, and they are part of a bigger patriarchal problem


šŸŽøšŸ„ Recently, a Thai pop-rock band consisting of five men in their late 30s has come under fire for making sexually aggressive jokes at their concert. In a session intended to be a ā€œcomedic breakā€, a group of conventionally attractive girls came on stage to role play a lottery drawing event while the band members and their guest delivered jokes by complimenting on the womenā€™s appearance. One member even he they could not participate because he was ā€œscared of [his] wifeā€.


šŸ—£ While part of the fans dismissed the backlash, proclaiming that everyone was there to have fun, not to be ā€œpolitically correctā€, another equally huge part was obviously disappointed and disturbed by the sexist and misogynistic nature of the jokes ā€“ and they were for the right reasons.


šŸ“Œ Jokes at the expense of women and other gender and sexual minorities have been long been considered ā€œharmless funā€, but they may fall under whatā€™s considered microaggressions. According to psychologist Derald W. Sue, microaggressions are ā€œthe everyday slights, indignities, put downs and insults that people of color, women, LGBT populations or those who are marginalized experience in their day-to-day interactions with people."


šŸ—Æ Without the intention to be offensive or derogatory, these comments have hostile implications. For instance, sexual or flirty comments on womenā€™s bodies as a form of entertainment inherently promotes the objectification and sexualization of women. Similarly, when a man pokes fun at himself for being the ā€œinferiorā€ one or being ā€œscoldedā€ by their wives, it is usually indicative of their lack of responsibilities, for example, their inability to help with chores. This narrative also trivializes the real power imbalance where men are structurally more privileged.


#WeAreManushyan ā™¾ Equal Human Beings


āœŠ Manushya Foundation condemns all sexist, misogynistic, and patriarchal acts against women and LGBTIQ+ people. Jokes at the expense of women and other gender diverse minorities not only represent patriarchal norms that are deeply embedded in our society, but also perpetuate them. If we are to abolish oppressive attitudes, we cannot ignore the manifestations of patriarchy, no matter how minor, and we must constantly reflect if our actions or beliefs are harmful.



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